Lady Shares How Ex-boyfriend Collected Everything He Bought For Her After Refusing to Marry Him

• A Nigerian lady shared how he ex-boyfriend stormed her home to collect everything he had bought for her
• She shared how she felt about the situation as she gave a total amount of everything he collected
• Many who came across the post shared their thoughts as she shared where the man came from

A Nigerian lady named Nkemdilim shared her encounter with her ex-boyfriend, whom she had refused to marry.

She narrated how he stormed her home to collect everything he bought for her.

On her Facebook page, she shared how he carried all the things he bought for her because she didn't marry him.

She stated that the man was from Nsukka in Enugu state, adding that everything she returned was about N2.1 million.

Nkemdilim also stated that she didn't feel pained about the situation; rather, she felt used.

Her Facebook post read:

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“Story time !!! So my nsukka ex boyfriend came and carried all the things he bought for me because I didn’t marry him. I refunded him with 2.1 million Naira worth of property. I’m not pained but I just feel used.”

In a chat with Legit.ng, a relationship coach with over 10 years of experience, Ereoluwa Gbemisola Femi-Alonge, shared her advice on the situation.

She said:

"The circumstances of the breakup and the type of gifts should be in perspective. I'll state here, that some men are petty, and no matter how insignificant the items might be, they will still want to take it back thereby asserting their "power." But I won't categorise all men as petty."

When asked if it was right for the lady to return the items, she said:

"I wouldn't advise any lady to ignore such men, either petty or otherwise. He alone knows why he's demanding those things, let her have a civil conversation with the other party. She can enlist the help of close members to talk to/with him if it will help to avoid issues, but it will be healthy on all..IF she can give it back."

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Reactions trail lady's ex-boyfriend's actions

Gabari Sandra said:

"Ur own is good at least amount of this things is million...we understand dat wat will u say about my own dat bought common 2 plastic chair for the customer to be using it sit in my store and d werey came to pack them because I said I nor do again. Common plastic chair dat it's not up to 15k.

Scientific Man OfFaith said:

"Why did you eat his money when you know you won't marry him?"

Nkiruka Maryann said:

"OMG am from nsukka but I didn't marry an nsukka man and that's because I have my reasons. They’re very petty."

Tosin Romoke said:

"You get soft mind Sha,if nah me I no dey give out anything,make him return my opueh for me too. Make Dem carry go where Dem go judge am,him dey whine."

Janefrancis Oluebubechukwu Israel Ogoke said:

"My mind is telling me I know the Nsukka boyfriend. Anyways thank God you didn't marry him, Women should leave Enugu men for their women!!"

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Maya Kay said:

"Why will you refund him? Did he also pay you back for all the things you did for him?"

Vivian Chimuanya said:

"Hmm omo if nah me. All the things he don collect from my body. He go refund am all he very stupid and useless."

Nigerian relationship stories that got people talking

Meanwhile, Legit.ng reported that a Nigerian lady fumed after a man asked her to send him N3,000 two days into their talking stage.

She shared a screen record of the man’s voice note as he shared the reason for asking for such amount.

Another Nigerian lady got engaged to her lover six months after she experienced heartbreak and gave up on falling in love.

In a related story, a single mother showed off three engagement rings from her past relationships and shared the story behind each of them.

Source: Legit.ng