Nigerian Lady Says She’d Rather Remain Single Than Date or Marry Struggling Man, Explains Why

• A Nigerian lady got people talking after she spoke about her choice of men in relationships and marriage
• She shared why she’d rather remain single than be with a man who would introduce her to a struggling lifestyle
• Many who came across the post shared their thoughts on the lady’s bold stance on relationships

A beautiful Nigerian lady, Anthonia Umerah, generated buzz after she boldly declared the kind of relationship she wanted to be involved in.

She said she’d rather remain single than date or marry a struggling man, as she gave her reasons.

On her Facebook page, Anthonia was reacting to a post about ladies who felt they were too beautiful to date struggling men.

As she reacted, she also shared the conversation she had with a new man she met.

The post read:

“I prefer to be single than date or marry certain categories of men that will introduce me to their struggling lifestyle. Struggle your struggle alone bro! Don’t involve me. I learnt to be very vocal about my choices from men. Men are very straight forward when it comes to their choices in woman.

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“Few days ago, I met a new man…just few minutes into our conversation….he asked me why I am single and I told him it is my choice. I equally asked him and he started wailing that women he likes don’t like dating him because he does not have a car which is a l0w self esteem problem on his own part that he is yet to realize. He proceeded to ask me…”I hope you are not like other women who can’t date a man who doesn’t have a car”.

“I’m certain he expected me to give him a pick-me response to massage his l0w self esteem and say I am not like them but I disappointed him and told him I am like them! I don’t like men who trek. I love men who have their own car and men who are comfortable. And that’s it! That was the end of our discussion.”

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Reactions trail lady’s stance on relationship

Adigun Adekemi Christianah said:

"One thing I love about you is you are a very straight forward lady and honestly this is the best for me . Keep it up girl."

Morgrace Obot said:

"You just talk true. With all the suffer I have suffer I should struggle with Man no oh. I'll stay single and get my money."

Chidiogo Gift Iweh said:

"Struggle your struggle. Make I struggle mine."

Nigerian relationship stories that got people talking

Meanwhile, Legit.ng reported that a Nigerian lady fumed after a man asked her to send him N3,000 two days into their talking stage.

She shared a screen record of the man’s voice note as he shared the reason for asking for such an amount.

Another Nigerian lady got engaged to her lover six months after she experienced heartbreak and gave up on falling in love.

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In a related story, a single mother showed off three engagement rings from her past relationships and shared the story behind each of them.

Proofreading by James Ojo, copy editor at Legit.ng.

Source: Legit.ng