“I Married My Enemy”: Woman Sells Phone to Pay For Mother’s Surgery After Rich Husband Refuses to Help

“I Married My Enemy”: Woman Sells Phone to Pay For Mother’s Surgery After Rich Husband Refuses to Help

  • A woman sold her phone to pay for her mother’s surgery after her wealthy husband refused to help her family
  • She shared her story on an online forum and asked for advice from other users
  • She got mixed reactions from Instagram, some of whom sympathised with her and advised her to work on her marriage

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A woman has revealed how she sold her phone to raise money for her mother’s emergency surgery after her husband refused to help her family.

She said she felt sad and betrayed by her rich husband, who spends lavishly on outsiders and side chicks.

Picture of a disappointed couple
Woman says she is considering divorce after her husband's actions. Photo credit: @stockphoto
Source: Instagram

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The woman, who did not want to reveal her identity, shared her story on an online forum called @couplestherapies on Instagram, seeking advice from other users.

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According to her, her husband single-handedly paid for the burial of a woman whose husband died, spending N2.1 million on the funeral.

He also bought her a car and the latest phone but hardly gives her money for other needs.

She said her mother was sick and needed an urgent operation that cost N380,000.

She asked her husband to help her family, but he refused. She later discovered that he sent N250,000 to his side chick to celebrate her birthday with her friends.

The woman wrote:

“I was so frustrated. I sold my phone to raise my mum’s hospital bills. I lied to him that they stole it. He wanted to use the serial code to destroy the phone and I had to open up. Now he’s threatening to send me back to my father’s house if I don’t bring back the phone."

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She said she reported the matter to her pastor. Still, her husband did not honour his invitation, and the women leader in her church reportedly gave her the money for the surgery and advised her to use wisdom to follow her husband.

“I’ve gotten the phone back and I’ve handed it back to my husband. I don’t want to use it again. I will buy myself a phone when I can afford it. I think I married my enemy. Please house, advice me. I want to pack out but I’m feeling my church members will be disappointed in me,” she added.

The woman’s story has sparked mixed reactions from other users, some of whom sympathised with her.

Some users suggested that she seek legal help or counselling, while others advised her to pray and work on her marriage.

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Legit.ng compiled some of the reactions to the woman's post below:

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@dear_onyinye reacted:

"Omoo! Sorry you had to go through this!... Marrying rich is not the problem, Marry a kind person instead."

@shanpepe said:

"I've never been married before so I don't know the type of advice to give you but if you think moving out is the best option, you should do it with your full chest. Your church members are not in the marriage with you."

@dezhenchard commented:

"When you got married traditionally, I hope your people did not make life unbearable for him. I hope you did not ask him to buy the entire world cos if you did and showed him no single consideration, I think this is pay back. Sometimes the truth is half told."

Woman seeks divorce from husband who abandoned wife & four daughters

Meanwhile, Legit.ng reported that a woman has filed for divorce from her husband, who left her and their four children six months ago.

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Ganiyat Yaya told Grade A Customary Court, Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, that she was no longer interested in her marriage to Tajudeen Yaya, whom she accused of being irresponsible and difficult.

According to Ganiyat, her husband neglected their welfare and refused to provide for their feeding, education, and medical care.

Source: Legit.ng

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Basit Jamiu (Editor) Basit Jamiu is a journalist with more than five years of experience. He is a current affairs and politics editor at Legit.ng. He holds a bachelor's degree from Ekiti State University (2018). Basit previously worked as a staff writer at Ikeja Bird (2022), Associate Editor at Prime Progress (2022), and Staff Writer at The Movee (2018). He is a 2024 Open Climate Fellow (West Africa), 2023 MTN Media Fellow, OCRP Fellow at ICIR, and Accountability Fellow at CJID. Email: basit.jamiu@corp.legit.ng.