"I Was the Cause of His Problems": Nigerian Man Unable to Achieve Anything Years after Denying Pregnancy

• A Nigerian lady has narrated what happened to her former boyfriend who denied impregnating her years ago
• The young man from Akwa Ibom happened to be her aunty's neighbour 15 years ago and got her pregnant when she was in year one
• His denial of the pregnancy made her remove the foetus and cursed the young man using her blood

A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to seek advice on how to help her ex-boyfriend who is going through a tough time.

Narrating their story anonymously on Life Facebook group, the lady revealed that the young man who hails from Akwa Ibom had actually denied her pregnancy 15 years ago.

She was on holiday at her aunty's place where she met the man who is her neighbour. Then in her year one at the university, they fell in love and began dating.

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But after putting her in a family way, the lady said that he denied impregnating her and even threatened to arrest her.

The reaction of her once-sweet boyfriend shocked her. Eventually, a friend linked her up with a chemist who helped abort the baby.

Lady curses man who rejected her pregnancy

The lady said she painfully cursed her erstwhile lover with her blood and moved on.

"I took the blood after the abo*rtion and with a painful heart and cursed the guy, and moved on with my life..."

She would forgive him months later after he sought her forgiveness. However, the lady is not happy with his current situation though she is married with kids. She said they met earlier in 2022 and he looked old, with no wife and kids.

"He told me that he was told that I was the cause of his problems, I told him that I had already forgiven him which genuinely I did. But seeing him in that condition brought tears in my heart," she wrote.

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Social media reactions

Chiagozie Okwuaka said:

"You should pray for him. Ask God to settle him maritally and to financially bless him too. He that has been forgiven much will forgive much. God forgave you so why are you still holding him down all those years?"

Kate Onyegwara Okoli said:

"You are not the cause of his predicament. His wickedness is flogging him. It is possible he did same to other girls, but women sef....... Please let us stop getting pregnant out of wedlock.

"If you must gfytrescvbkxjz, always remember that they sell postinor 2 and cond*om for a reason."

Agulue Valentine said:

"You want to return to him or dash him one of your children, in order to assuage the guilt you feel?

"Move on and do remember him in Prayers. Some women, I will always say, have powerful Guardian Spirits at their Beck and call. If you offend and she's innocent, Karma will come calling."

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Damola Paul said:

"You're not the cause of anything...his callous behaviour towards you was clearly a pattern of behaviour. You're not the only person he has gravely offended in this life. Either someone else has laid curses on him, or karma is now dealing with his past misbehaviour. You have forgiven him, move on with your life, and don't allow him re-burden you with guilt."

Single mum shuns ex who denied getting her pregnant

Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that a single mum had shunned her ex-lover who denied putting her in a family way.

In a video she shared on TikTok, she recounted how the man denied getting her pregnant, but he now wants the baby. The man had said back then:

"You don't deserve to be my wife and the pregnancy does not belong to me."

She said the man has been using her baby's picture on his Whatsapp DP and that he wants them to be together again.

Source: Legit.ng