40-Year-Old Childless Woman Celebrates Not Having Children, Says She's Living Her Best Life

40-Year-Old Childless Woman Celebrates Not Having Children, Says She's Living Her Best Life

  • A Nigerian woman has shared a video on the TikTok app celebrating her decision to never have children no matter what
  • According to the woman, she is currently 40 years old and still living her best life, despite some people judging her decision as wrong
  • Commenting on the story, a Nigerian mum of three, Angela Akaraonye, criticised her decision, stating that children bring life to a home

A Nigerian woman's decision to remain childfree has sparked mixed reactions from social media users.

The woman, who recently shared a video on TikTok, revealed that she had chosen not to have children, despite reaching the age of 40.

Nigerian woman celebrates being childless at 40
40-year-old Nigerian woman reiterates decision to remain childfree Photo credit: @destinyuteh3/TikTok.
Source: TikTok

Woman celebrates being childfree at 40

In the video, the woman, identified as @destinyuteh3 on TikTok, was seen rejoicing at home, clearly content with her decision.

Her video was accompanied by a message urging people to reconsider their motivations for having children.

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She questioned whether people were having children solely to secure care and support in their old age.

In her words:

"40 years with no kids. People still don't understand. 40 years no kids and living my best life. Having kids is a choice and you can be happy if you decide not to have kids. You're giving birth to children because you want them to be your nurse or caregiver? Ask yourself why you want kids."
Nigerian woman celebrates being childless at 40
40-year-old Nigerian woman rejoices over having no children Photo credit: @destinyuteh3/TikTok.
Source: TikTok

Commenting on the story, a Nigerian mum of three, Angela Akaraonye, criticised her decision, stating that children bring life to a home.

"I cannot imagine life without my three kids oooo. They bring life to me. They make me feel alive. I honestly pray that she changes her decision but if not, then I pray she doesn't live to regret it as well," she said.

Reactions as woman celebrates being childfree at 40

The video sparked lots of reactions on TikTok, with many users flocking to the comments section to share their opinions.

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While some users praised her courage and conviction, others expressed their disagreement with her decision.

@BabyGurl said:

"Childfree by choice. No point bringing kids to suffer in an unstable and unfair word."

@Fey said:

"Why are the women with kids triggered. Respect people’s choices that’s common sense. I have a kid and that’s my choice and i respect hers."

@Sage said:

"I am 42, I have four children aged 18, 16, 7 and 6. I feel good about myself, I have peace, my children are good. Ladies, don't be deceived by these kind of women boasting for not having kids."

@Elvira R said:

"I’m sorry you are unhappy with your life so have the need to diminish someone else’s life choices in order to validate your own as the “correct ones”. Hope it gets better for you soon."

@Chiberry Oj (Salad Boss) said:

"I am 36 mother of four, with a teenage daughter in university, happily married and grateful."

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@happinessreality commented:

"I am 28 years am pregnant and am not removing the baby because am not married i rather join the single mother hold clock 30 without a child."

@Marvee added:

"The fact that you people think being married and having kids will make someone happy is very sad. Marriage and children are not for everyone!"

Watch the video here:

Woman dances as husband agrees not to have children

Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that a young woman celebrated being married to a man who allowed her not to have children like she desired.

In a trending video, she jumped and danced excitedly as she showcased the ring on her finger and rejoiced over having her dream home.

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Source: Legit.ng

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