"I Want My 1st with Someone Special": Man Who's Still Pure at 33 Says Its Hard Finding Love

• A man revealed he was still chaste at 33 and hopes to find true love, eliciting mixed reactions online
• The worried man said he had never slept with a woman and tried dating, but it never worked for him
• His post saw many men as old as 50 share similar stories, encouraging each other that one day they would meet their better halves

A 33-year-old man has confessed that he has never slept with a woman in his entire life.

The worried man took to Reddit.com to reveal that he chose to stay chaste because he wants to be with a woman he really loves and not just hookups.

Why man is still chaste at 33

He said he had gotten advances from friends but was not interested. His post saw many men as old as 50 share similar stories.

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"I'm a 33-year-old male and have never had intimacy. I've had the opportunity come up a few times, but it was either a FWB kind of deal or an open marriage relationship, and each time I declined. I guess I want my first time to be with someone I love and for it to be special. I've tried dating but it never really worked out so I stopped, and then time just got away from me," he posted on Reddit.com.

Psychokiller90 said:

"I think it’s pretty classy and mature of you to wait for the right one instead of having a one-night stand and regretting it."

JudgeMeByMyPhallus said:

"Problem is he also doesn't date, and likely has little experience in that area, so when he meets the perfect girl he will probably mess up. Being chaste isn't a dealbreaker, but you need to know how to court women and that only comes from practice."

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SuddenAnxieties784 said:

"Your story and your thought process is exactly the same as mine. I also want the first time to be meaningful, so I never really looked for any casual stuff and only tried to look for something meaningful, but to no avail. But I must say, with each passing day my urge for some physical intimacy is increasing, be it in any form (even casual), because the loneliness is killing me man."

Monroegoodwin477 said:

"Trust me at this your age don’t tell a woman you are still chaste. Maybe when you find someone you love…women love men that have experience about something and more mature about having lust and sex."

Imaginary_101 said:

"You shouldn't care what people think. Also your value doesn't come from sex, you simply have vaule dude. We live in a misandty society that hates men."

Keldrath said:

"Unless you’re with a girl from church or something who’s super traditional and wants to wait for marriage too and is looking for that specifically, yeah unfortunately it is and it’s best to just never mention it."

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Glyvirgin1960 said:

I have u beat! I'm 63 years old man and still chaste. I can't understand why. And yes I've been asked for the FWB; asked to send 'females money so they could devirginize me; I've said no as I don't know the women in dating apps& I was raised to wait til I'm married to give it up."

Woman, 32, laments being chaste, unable to find love

Elsewhere, a lady revealed she was still pure and had never been in a relationship in her entire life.

Taking to Reddit.com, the lady revealed she was picky when it came to men, and as a result, most of her dates did not go past the first one.

"I haven't been successful with dating. I'm unattractive, but I try to fix my appearance. I haven't gone past the first date. I'm used to rejection at this point. Never had a kiss, never got in relations, I haven’t even hugged a guy," she said.

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The 32-year-old lady said she wanted a child and was seriously looking for a man to be with. She disclosed she had bought kids' clothes and toys over the past decade.

"I'm so frustrated. I never imagined my life would be like this. I thought I'd be married. I've been asking guys out for fifteen years. Nothing good has happened. I don't even try to get guys that are way too hot for me. I ask out normal guys."

Lady who's still pure at 33 speaks

Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that at 36 year of age, New York dancer and comedian Sonali Chandra is still pure. It is, however, a milestone that has cost her many relationships as, according to her, men don't seem to want such women anymore.

She told News.com.au that her plan is to remain pure until she gets married, something that puts off potential suitors.

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Sonali adds that her insistence on keeping off intimacy until marriage and lack of experience in the bedroom are her biggest undoing. The Indian-American woman attributed her strong beliefs to the fact that she was raised in a “very conservative way” and, therefore, views intimacy as “sacred and special”. She remembered how her first boyfriend's jaw dropped when she opened up about her terms, after which he asked if she planned on being so for eternity.

Source: TUKO.co.ke