"I am Not Leaving Nigeria": Woman Rejects Relocation to UK with Kids, Says Husband Must Follow Them

"I am Not Leaving Nigeria": Woman Rejects Relocation to UK with Kids, Says Husband Must Follow Them

  • A lady has shared how her husband suggested that she relocates to the UK with their children while he stays back in Nigeria
  • However, she refused to relocate and firmly stood her ground, insisting on staying together in their home country as a family
  • Netizens expressed mixed opinions on the matter in the comments section with many faulting her decision

In a TikTok video, a Nigerian mother @missy_ola_____ recounted her husband's request to send her and their children abroad.

He had proposed a plan for her and their children to move to the United Kingdom while he remained in Nigeria.

Woman refuses to relocate abroad with her kids
Woman refuses to relocate abroad with her kids Photo credit: @missyola/TikTok.
Source: TikTok

Woman rejects husband's request to move her and kids abroad

However, she adamantly refused to go without her husband and insisted that he go with them or they all remain in Nigeria.

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She said:

"If you are not going with us, we ain't going nowhere."

Her firm stance on prioritising family unity resonated with many viewers, as it highlights the importance of togetherness in such life-changing decisions.

Divided opinions emerge in the comments section

Following the TikTok video, netizens flocked to the comments section, expressing their contrasting views.

Some applauded Missy_ola's decision, commending her commitment to keeping the family intact.

They believed that the children's well-being and the strength of their marriage should take precedence over potential opportunities abroad.

On the other hand, some argued that moving to the UK could offer better prospects for the children, leading to a higher quality of life.

They suggested that Missy_ola should consider the long-term benefits for her kids, even if it meant temporarily separating from her husband.

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@XOX0123 said:

“Girl think about it wisely ow. If this may be a good opportunity for you and your children go and don't mind him. If you want to stay because of fear.”

@qali_19 said:

“I have seen the UK, you my friend are a very wise woman. There is nothing but back-breaking work, stress and depression waiting for you there.”

@Rebecca Ejike reacted:

“I will so go with my kids and won't look back.”

@Rukky reacted:

“A lot of people commenting haven't actually travelled na why as dem hear uk body Dey sweet them. It's not easy to work and take care of a child alone.”

@Precious said:

“You better go. Man that wants to be with you will always be for you. It's better living for your kids.”

@sisi said:

“Go together o, distance marriage is a big problem and looking after children alone is another problem abroad.”

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Lady rejects Australian visa to be with man

Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that user on X, @nanpon_majau, praised his wife who chose love over her educational aspirations in Australia three years ago.

According to him, she decided to forgo her dream to pursue an educational degree in Australia because she wanted to marry him.

Three years later, the couple are still waxing strong with their child, and despite the recent hike in fuel prices, they have remained contented and joyful.

The proud husband revealed that they have overcome various challenges with their unwavering faith and commitment to each other.

Nanpon_majau and his wife are not just weathering the storms of life but are also growing in their faith and becoming a shining example of a godly family.

They find joy in their daughter, Tash, and are eagerly anticipating the arrival of their second child.

The journey has been nothing short of glorious for the couple, who expressed their gratitude for each other's sacrifices and love.

Source: Legit.ng

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Ankrah Shalom (Human-Interest editor) Shalom Ankrah is a journalist and a Human Interest Editor at Legit.ng with over three years of experience. She has a degree in Mass communication from Alex Ekwueme University. Shalom has worked with reputable news organizations including The Tide and GistReel. Email: ankrah.shalom@corp.legit.ng.