“I Regret”: Married Woman Who Employed Oyinbo Maid in Matrimonial Home Cries Out Over Constant Disrespect
- A Nigerian lady who employed an oyinbo lady as her house help has cried out after getting disrespected
- In a video, she lamented bitterly over the countless disrespectful actions of the girl who lives with her
- While some netizens advised her to be more patient with the maid, others had other suggestions to make
A Nigerian lady recently confronted her white maid, Angel, over an alleged act of disrespect.
In the video, the employer, Angela Nwosu, expressed her disappointment and questioned Angel's behaviour, highlighting her previous experiences working for other employers.
Source: TikTok
Angel, while apologising, acknowledged her mistake and expressed remorse for her actions.
“I’m so sorry about earlier, I didn’t mean to, I was just cranky. It was my fault I’m so sorry,” she apologized.
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Angela vents her frustration over oyinbo maid's action
Angela further questioned Angel's understanding of the role of a maid and emphasised the importance of respect in their working relationship.
She contemplated implementing stricter rules and boundaries, considering the possibility of limiting Angel's movements and imposing more regulations within the household.
Speaking further, the boss expressed her exhaustion with the perceived disrespect, speculating that their close relationship and shared activities may have contributed to Angel's behaviour.
The furious lady added that she had discussed the incident with her husband, and they planned to address the situation together upon his return.
In her words:
“I’ve already spoken with my husband. I told him when he comes back, we will talk about it. I’m so tired of your disrespect maybe because I play with you, take walks with you, we hang out, that’s why you are disrespecting me.”
How oyinbo maid disrespected Nigerian boss
The incident unfolded after Angela asked Angel to take out the trash, and Angel allegedly refused, leading to the confrontation.
Following this, Angela sought a better plan to restore a respectful and harmonious working relationship with her maid, Angel.
Reactions as lady cries out over disrespect from oyinbo maid
vumiledlamini57
“Someone pls enlighten me, dis is a family of 3 so wat are 3 house maids doing in 1 house but it is none of my business.”
@senje litty reacted:
“Why calling the girl maid who raised you instead call her another name.”
@Bellah Chris commented:
“Give me that job I will respect you madam ‚l'm in Dubai hire me please.”
@issacisilver reacted:
“Shes not your maid my friend shes your helper show her some respect.”
@jinel3 reacted:
“She needs UNIFORM.”
@peshwabobi commented:
“People commenting about uniform, how would you feel putting on uniform year to year or she is working in the mall that she should be recognised.”
@user9909848400243 said:
“You don't respect her in return I see no reason of her apologizing.”
@hdaniidowu said:
“She want to live a good life with a disobedient spirit, uniform please.”
@Akofar D said:
“I think a little distance will help her nd let her wear the maid uniform cos she only respects ur husband my opinion tho.”
Marycynthia Onyinyechi Okonkwo said:
“Please forgive her ma please forgive.”
@abigailnkoma reacted:
“mmmmmmm next time you might need her madam respect her she's very kind.”
@dark_knight403 reacted:
“You have to set boundaries, if not you will keep saying the same thing and if you feel she is stressing you out,let her go.”
Watch the video below:
Lady sends housemaid packing for practising witchcraft
Meanwhile, Legit.ng reported that a Nigerian lady has lamented not being able to keep housemaids after recently sending another one packing. She accused the latest maid for practising witchcraft and seeking to harm her with it.
A video reposted by @remedyblog on Instagram captured the woman burning the clothes of the housemaid as she threw her belongings out. The lady expressed sadness that the maid chose to repay her kindness with evil and disclosed that she had bought a new phone and clothes for the househelp two weeks after giving her the work.
The displeased madam further accused the maid of being a liar. She added that the maid's ugly behaviours are not new as the househelp's aunt stated that she had been found wanting at her 5 previous places of work - hers was the 6th.
Source: Legit.ng
