“Why Romance Is Important in Marriage”: Pastor Adeboye Counsels Couples
- Pastor Enoch Adeboye has spoken up about the importance of couples maintaining romance in marriage, even in the midst of spiritual responsibilities
- In a message shared on Friday, Adeboye revealed that he and his wife, Foluke, still nurture their love with pet names when they are alone
- While noting that “anointing does not reduce romance,” Adeboye urged Christian couples, especially pastors, to prioritize intimacy and ensure their marriages remain vibrant and joyful
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Pastor Enoch Adeboye, the general overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), has stressed the importance of maintaining romance in marriage, even amid spiritual obligations.
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Adeboye to couples: "Spirituality should not reduce romance"
In a post shared on his Facebook page on Friday, September 20, Adeboye revealed that he and his wife, Foluke, still use affectionate pet names when they are alone.
Daddy GO as he is fondy called highlighted that “anointing does not reduce romance.”
Through this heartfelt advice, Adeboye urged married couples to prioritize intimacy and romance to keep their marriages vibrant and joyful.
He explained that some pastors avoid romantic activities, believing it distracts from their spiritual focus.
Adeboye emphasised that being anointed should not negate the need for romance, drawing an example from the Bible.
"The fact that you are a Christian does not in any way take romance out of your marriage. Marriage is the only institution where romance and intimacy is allowed between a man and a woman.
"Some pastors hardly go on dates with their spouses because they consider such a romantic activity as a distraction from their focus on spiritual matters. Some of them don’t even play with their spouses anymore.
"Beloved, the anointing does not reduce the need for romance in marriage.
"Isaac was an anointed man of God and a successful businessman, yet in Genesis 26:8, the Bible says he was being romantic with his wife:
"And it came to pass, when he had been there a long time, that Abimelech king of the Philistines looked out at a window, and saw, and, behold, Isaac was sporting with Rebekah his wife.Don’t become too rigid in your marriage; don’t have more fun elsewhere without your spouse. Make the times that you and your spouse spend together so much fun that you are always looking forward to seeing each other again. If you are married, remember how you used to talk for long hours with your spouse before you got married and had children; revive that relationship again. Your spouse is still the same fellow you were very fond of, and the things you loved in him or her are still there. Don’t let all the cares of this life distract you from the gems in your spouse.
"Once in a while, compose a poem for your spouse and read it to him or her in a romantic setting. Spice things up with pleasant surprises every now and then. Write a note and put it in his or her bag so that when they get to the office and open their bag, they will see the note and smile. Have a pet name that you call each other behind closed doors. Up until today, there is a pet name my wife calls me when we are alone. I equally have a pet name that I call her, and every time I call her by that name, she cannot but smile at me lovingly. When we are alone, we are lovers, not Daddy G.O and Mummy G.O. Your marriage can be like heaven on earth if you and your spouse are deliberate about remaining the lovebirds that you were when you first got married.
"Don’t let the romance die."
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Pastor Adeboye recounts how he was duped
Earlier, Legit.ng reported that Pastor Adeboye has encouraged Nigerians to wait upon God concerning their key decisions.
Daddy GO as he is fondly called gave this advice while narrating how he was deceived and duped by a man who posed as a leader of a paramilitary group.
Adeboye, in his message "Don't try to outrun God," noted that it was dangerous to rush into decisions without divine consultation.
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