Tonto Dikeh Advises Women on Dating Various Men around Their Daughters, Netizens React: “Boys Too”
- Nigerian actress and politician Tonto Dikeh weighed in on a contentious topic around the home
- The screen diva, in her recent social media post, addressed mothers and women on how to handle the several men in their lives
- Tonto was built on protecting the girl child from potential danger, as many of her followers reacted to it differently
- In a chat with Legit.ng Kingsley Speaks, an online relationship coach and therapist, addressed Tonto's message to female adults as he spoke on the importance of safeguarding young girls
Nigerian actress and politician Tonto Dikeh spurred some controversy online with her recent social media quote.
The actress, known for sporadically giving tips on life, has dropped another advising mothers and women on their relationships with several men.
Source: Instagram
The mum of one cautioned her gender on how they invite different men into their homes when their children are around.
However, Tonto laid her emphasis on the girl child. In her words, she wrote:
“Stop bringing different men around your children, especially little girls.”
See her post below:
Tonto is right - Kingsly Speaks
In a chat with Legit.ng, Kingsley Speaks spoke on the psychological and physical vulnerability of young girls, particularly in the context of being exposed to adult relationships or interactions with the opposite sex.
In his words:
"Because of the fragile nature of girls at a very young age, it's advisable that they should be protected at all cost.This damage can come in two forms.
"1) The message that is been sent to the mind of this girl child or teenager might not be managed properly.Bringing the opposite sex home when you have a teenage or below teenage daughter, or just a girl sends a message to that child and this message might not be managed properly. This message is largely that of "being with a man is okay even at that young age or a later age".
"This message can be destructive to that child. Children don't filter messages. Their mind can't filter messages at that age and for this reason this can be destructive to them. If a child sees an adult with the opposite sex most of the time, she'll start thinking of being with men.
2} These girls are exposed to different men who can hurt them."
Tonto Dikeh spurs reactions online
Legit.ng compiled the reactions below:
ijioma_esther_alumona:
"Ma how was your day going. Have a nice day."
honeydrippingtinz:
"Even with boys, I don’t try it!"
mhiz__ade_ebun:
"Louder Pls, boys too."
iam_jennyiz:
"Both gender ma’am!! It’s becoming scaring."
urielblessing:
"Both genders are no longer safe, may God protect all the children."
wood_craft_girl.ng:
"This!!!!! I have a daughter and people keep wondering why no matter how good and loving you are to me, you are not coming to my house. Until I choose to remarry. They say am being too strict."
st_monica_james:
"Men are not to be trusted especially around teenage girls."
motherofsss:
"I will rather remain single o than bring strangers around my children."
Tonto Dikeh brags after fighting car dealer
Meanwhile, Legit.ng earlier reported that many hours after the video of Tonto Dikeh fighting a car dealer gained momentum online and drawn heated reactions from Nigerians, the actress took to her Instagram page to brag about her actions.
In the post, the movie star shared a lovely photo of her face and accompanied it with a caption explaining that she is a woman who doesn’t take nonsense and also doesn’t care about people’s opinions.
In a subsequent post, Tonto Dikeh continued to brag. According to her, she is fearless and doesn't talk too much.
Proofread by Kola Muhammed, journalist and copyeditor at Legit.ng
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