Shaffy Bello Sends Important Message to Ladies: “You Are More Attractive You Don’t Need a Man”
- Nigerian actress Shaffy Bello shared her thoughts on the debates surrounding the value of women in relationships.
- The veteran actor argued on the ‘Me, Her and Everything Else’ podcast that men shouldn’t be the only ones bringing things to the table
- Shaffy imagined herself as a guy and stated that she could not get married to a woman who would be a burden
- In a chat with Legit.ng Kingsley Speaks, an online relationship coach and therapist, shared his understanding of Bello's perceptive
Nigerian actress Shaffy Bello has weighed in on the value of what women should add to their relationships.
In an interview with Stephanie Coker, the actress advised women to stop questioning men when they ask what they contribute to the table. She added that she would not want a liability if she were a male.
Source: Instagram
The actress elaborated by saying that if she were a guy, she would not want to be a burden to anyone.
Shaffy further said that men find independent women more appealing. Women, in her opinion, should avoid coming across as overly dependent.
See her video below
Shaffy Bello’s video sparks reactions online
Many people agreed with her in the comments, but some disagreed.
See their comments below:
@iam__temmyy:
"What I’ve noticed; it takes growing older and passing that 20s baddie stage for some of them to be truthful.
"After 20s, they get more serious and focused with life, no more shenanigans. While others don’t mind saying the truth even in that same 20s."
swt_wealth:
"Na that liability some men like oo we that work day and night them go dey use us play."
emmanuel_hapi2:
"See sensible podcast no those rubbish wey dem dey talk about gbola and vibator 24/7."
favour_userhumu:
"A woman who's submssive and play her wife and mother roles but doesn't contribute financially, is not a liability."
samsonironside's:
"Them podcast girls no go like this one ooo war go soon start."
hi_islamiyyah:
Just have something doing as a woman,forget about this table thing sef,you need to be productive as a man or woman."
@Dprince_charmin:
"The girls wey dey shout "I agree, true, she's right " na them gan gan no dey like that question."
Both sexes now seek more from each other - Kingsley Speaks
In a chat with Legit.ng Kingsley Speaks, an online relationship coach and therapist, noted that traditional gender roles in marriage, where men were primarily responsible for financial provision and women for domestic roles, are changing.
According to Kingsley, men and women are now seeking more from their partners.
"In this time and age, marriage is burdened with a lot of responsibility that has made men seek more than just beauty in a woman. It also made women seek more than just financial provisions from a man.
"If we are to dig deeper into this, you'll discover that both genders now demand more from each other. The man wants a woman who will support him in the home and not just come in with beauty alone to offer. The woman wants a man who can play other roles besides financial provision.
"Shaffy Bello was trying to hit on this point that a woman should bring more to the table to be valued and respected. And asking a woman what she brings to the table should never be a problem if only women understand that every good and responsible man deserves a woman that brings more to the table in marriage."
Shaffy Bello reveals she is related to Korede Bello
Legit.ng previously reported that actress Shaffy Bello was among the celebrities who attended RMD's 60th birthday.
The beautiful actress shared some lovely photo from the party as she was spotted with Korede Bello.
Shaffy surprised fans as she revealed that she and the musician are related by blood.
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