“Many Women Don’t Even Know What Their Boyfriends Do for a Living”: BBNaija Tochi Blows Hot

“Many Women Don’t Even Know What Their Boyfriends Do for a Living”: BBNaija Tochi Blows Hot

  • Former Big Brother Naija housemate Tochukwu shared his views on Nigerian women's carelessness in the dating scene
  • Tochukwu's observation comes days after the viral case of Justina's death, who was killed by her boyfriend for rituals
  • The reality TV star pointed out that most ladies get carried away in their relationships to the point where they do not know their lover's source of wealth 
  • In an exclusive chat with Legit.ng, relationship therapist and counsellor Kinglsey Speaks shared his sentiments on women's love needs

Big Brother Naija star Tochukwu has shared his take on the modern dating trend among Nigerian women.

The reality TV star's statement suggested that many people, especially women, do not bother to know their boyfriend's source of income.

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Pictures of BBNaija Tochi Credit: @tochi.official
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He said that as long as their lovers give them money and indulge them, many women don't ask how they generate cash. Tochukwu stressed the gravity of this issue.

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This comes after the viral case of Justina's death, who was butchered by a lover who tried to dispose of her mutilated body parts.

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“Many of you don’t even know what your boyfriend does for a living”: BBNaijaTochi
BBNaija Tochi berates Nigerian women Credit: @tochi.offcial
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A woman's need for a man isn't just to be loved- Kinglsey Speaks

In an exclusive chat with Legit.ng, relationship therapist and counsellor Kinglsey Speaks discussed how financial stability is a significant factor for women in choosing a romantic partner.

He further asserted that this emphasis on financial provision has contributed to an increase in abusive and toxic behaviour among men.

He said:

"Every woman needs a man who can love and take care of her. Provision is a priority for women when choosing a man. In this time and age, a higher percentage of women desire a man who can provide for them. This is also the reason many women do not bother to know what these men really do to make money.

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"Nowadays, a higher percentage of women, especially the younger generation, do not bother to know what their partners do for a living. As long as he provides, he is the right man.
"This is why we have seen a rise in abusive and toxic masculinity among men. Because these men believe that when they are financially stable, they'll be accepted by many women. Somewhere in the minds of these men, they believe provision is a woman's need. So, they believe all they need is money. In this time and age, a higher percentage of women accept men who can provide."

How BBNaija Phyna alerted fans on death threats after clash with Davido

BBNaija star Josephine Otabor, better known as Phyna, has reported receiving death threats after the online feud with artist Davido.

Legit.ng recalled that on Wednesday, October 18, the Level Up winner got into an online spat with the musician after he liked a tweet criticising the reality star and her followers.

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Hours after the incident, the Level Up star took to social media to alert her fans and followers to how her life has been on a heatwave since then.

BBN Pere shares touching details about Mercy

According to a previous report by Legit.ng BBN Pere shocked many with his candid confession of his love and attraction for one of his colleagues, Mercy.

Pere revealed that Mercy's commitment to God strengthened their relationship.

He added that he was impressed to see Mercy reading the bible daily while they were on the reality show.

He was also surprised to see her pray daily too.

BBNaija Uriel's relationship with Whitemoney

Uriel spoke on the relationship between her and Whitemoney. In a video making the rounds online, the reality show star revealed that Whitemoney wanted to date her outside the house, but she refused.

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Not stopping there, Uriel, the second housemate to be evicted, explained that despite knowing Whitemoney outside the house, he really disappointed her on the show.

She explained that perhaps he underestimated her when it came to cooking because she was raised in London.

Source: Legit.ng

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Chinasa Afigbo (Editor) Chinasa Afigbo is a pop culture/music journalist and content writer with over four years of experience in other mainstream media organisations, including Vanguard Media and Guardian Life. She holds a degree in Information Management Technology from the Federal University of Technology, Owerri (FUTO). She also moved on to pursue courses in writing & media communications. Chinasa has also been published in other Intl journals, like The African Report. Reach her at: chinasa.afigbo@corp.legit.ng.