Uche Maduagwu Applauds Divorce, Speaks on Importance of Celebrating Marital Freedom: “Takes Bravery”
- Nollywood actor Uche Maduagwu has championed the idea of celebrating divorce anniversaries among broken marriages
- Taking to Instagram, the controversial figure asserted that divorce should be destigmatized and approached with the same openness as any other life occasion
- Maduagwu stated that divorce symbolizes a courageous stride towards personal liberation rather than a mark of defeat
- In an exclusive chat with Kingsley Speaks, an online relationship therapist, and coach, he speaks on the dynamics of marriage and divorce from a religious view
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Controversial Nollywood actor Uche Maduagwu wants Nigerians to normalise the celebration of divorce.
The outspoken actor shared an Instagram post in support of divorce, stating that it should not be treated like a funeral.
The actor believes divorce signifies bravery and freedom, not failure.
Uche went on to say that those who don't commemorate divorce anniversaries are ungrateful to God because many are still in terrible marriages.
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"We need to normalize celebrating divorce and stop making it. Look like a funeral. Divorce is not a sign of failure, it's a celebration of bravery and freedom.
"People who don't celebrate their divorce anniversaries are being ungrateful to God because so many people are still in Bad and unhappy. Marriages that they are unable to walk out of, so if you are lucky enough to walk out of a Marriage that does not bring out the Best in you, please CELEBRATE. It takes a special GRACE from God to achieve that Freedom".
See his post below:
Uche Maduagwu's statement on divorce sparks reactions
Legit.ng compiled some of the reactions below:
nahjuanatu:
"You're some men are so toxic and we see them before like heroes meanwhile they were sheep and the woman was going through a lot."
daddyzarah:
"Why you dey always post nonsense guy? So because you believe in divorce, every other person should? Abeg rest."
hazelanntenia:
"This is so true. Marriage is not do or die and people needs to come out of that thinking."
A marriage won't work, if both parties cannot make it work
In an exclusive chat with Kingsley Speaks, an online relationship therapist, and coach, he uses the bible to address the values of marriage and when divorce should be an option without looking back.
"First and foremost, people need to understand that marriage is God's plan and was never intended to be dissolved. From the first time divorce was organised in the bible by Moses, the reason was not because God wanted it. But because people could not live together.In the context of marriage, living together can only be achieved when God is at the center of the relationship. By this I mean that, we cannot always love and serve each other in marriage without the help of God and the Holy Spirit.
"If God is the One who organised marriage, we'll need Him live without divorce being an option.God's purpose for marriage is that both parties love abd serve eachother by first loving Him.But when people are not able to live together as God designed, if the marital relationship becomes toxic and detrimental to the health of one party, then this is why people divorce.Just as it was in the days of Moses
"Where divorce became an option because two people could not live together because of one or many reasons, in this time and age, if a marital relationship becomes detrimental and toxic to the other party, its advisable to leave for safety one deserves to die in a marital relationship. If both parties cannot love and serve each other in a way that honors God, if the relationship has become toxic, its okay to leave.
"While it is okay to leave a marital relationship when it's becoming toxic and destructive, people should also learn that a marital relationship cannot work if two people cannot make it work. A lot of tolerance and forgiveness is involved to make it work. It's not a walk in the park. Some divorce isn't really because the relationship was toxic but because one or both parties cannot accommodate and tolerate each other. If the relationship is toxic and abusive, it's right to leave. But if it is not, then divorce is not always an option."
Uche Maduagwu drags Pete Edochie
Uche Maduagwu stirred reactions with a video of him dragging his senior colleague, Pete Edochie, over his statement about divorce among Nollywood actresses.
During an interview with Chude Jideonwo, the veteran expressed concern over the rate of actresses who have left their husbands.
Edochie mentioned the unsuccessful marriages of Chioma Chukwuka, Tonto Dikeh, and Ireti Doyle, amongst others.
Source: Legit.ng