“They Couldn’t Even Congratulate Me”: Uche Ogbodo Puzzled As Male Friends Abandon Her After Getting Married
- Actress Uche Ogbodo has taken to social media with a video post in which she opened up on a mind-boggling topic
- The entertainer wondered why a lot of men always keep their distance whenever their female friends get married
- Ogbodo shared her experience and recounted how some of her closest male friends couldn't even offer congratulations when she got married
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Nollywood actress Uche Ogbodo has taken to social media with a question that seems to be keeping her restless at the moment.
Ogbodo in a video post shared on Instagram wondered why a lot of men always terminate their friendship with females whenever they get married.
Source: Instagram
The actress wondered if it is a decision that is often fueled by jealousy or if it is simply because the men in question also considered getting married to their female friends.
In a different portion of the video, Ogbodo mentioned that she personally experienced the same with her male friends.
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According to her, it was so bad that some of them even refused to send in their congratulatory messages after she got married.
Watch her speak below:
Social media users react
essential_welbeing said:
"Some of the men are jealous,why some are scared of wahala from your hubby."
a.r.dinvestment said:
"I think they choose to respect you as a married woman... some men can be JEROUUS so they don't want to cause any problem between you people..."
giftaglow_enterprise said:
"It's because they now think you have a male figure who will be there for you. Some too may have been nurturing love for you but couldn't master momentum to spew it out."
fin24.7 said:
"They need to respect the fact you're married & prefer to keep the distance base on Africa way... there is always a mortive behind male/female friends thing."
whitesautos_ said:
"And for your question, It's so because you're off the market and they are kinda giving your husband a respect and also making you not to be distracted in the marriage."
ola_nikeee said:
"I feel it’s just a show of respect to you and the husband..which I find really thoughtful not necessarily mean they hating on you for moving on.especially the ones we genuinely had good relationship with before getting hooked.they always mean well and just want the person to enjoy her new life and would be in touch when need be."
"There's no need keeping too many male friend" - Married woman
During a brief chat with Legit.ng, Ayobami Aina, a married woman explained her experience and how she wasn't one who kept a flock of male friends even while dating.
Aina equally added that even if one must keep male friends as a married woman, it is important to draw clear boundaries about the nature of the friendship.
"I just don't think it's appropriate to have too many male friends when you are dating, talk more of when you are married. It's important that you learn to set clear boundaries and once that has been done, you can keep those who do not have hidden agendas. It's also important to make sure that your husband is aware of your male friends and they equally have a good relationship."
Uche Ogbodo shares photos from traditional wedding
Meanwhile, Legit.ng reported that Uche Ogbodo was celebrated by friends, family members and colleagues in the entertainment industry some weeks ago.
Ogbodo who tied the know with her lover, Bob Maris, on Thursday, January 5, released official photos and a video from the ceremony on her IG page.
The actress gave all glory to God and many were seen in her comment section with congratulatory messages for her.
Source: Legit.ng
