We are the Bad Friends We Complain about: Toyin Abraham Preaches Genuine Friendship and Accountability

We are the Bad Friends We Complain about: Toyin Abraham Preaches Genuine Friendship and Accountability

- Toyin Abraham has taken to social media to talk at length concerning friendship

- The filmmaker said that expecting perfection ruins the beauty of friendship most times

- Abraham also said that instead of exposing weaknesses people should hold others with grace and compassion

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Award-winning actress and filmmaker, Toyin Abraham recently took to social media to drop some advice and golden nuggets concerning friendship.

In the lengthy post she shared va her official Instagram page, the movie star noted that it is easy to label people friends and refuse to be friends with them while forgetting their own flaws.

We are the Bad Friends We Complain about: Toyin Abraham Preaches Genuine Friendship and Accountability
Actress Toyin Abraham talks about friendship Photo credit: @toyin_abraham
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She continued by saying that everyone is guilty of being a bad friend at some point but it is easier to point out the flaw in other people.

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The actress continued by saying that rather than avoiding people, exposing weaknesses and publicising offenses, people should hold on to one another with grace, compassion and help themselves grow.

Excerpt form her post read:

"You complain that friends are bad and so you don't want to have friends. I complain that friends are bad and so, I'd rather do without them. But honestly, who are these bad friends that make us all want to do away with friendships if not us all? Ṣé ẹ fẹ́ gbọ́ òótọ́, most of the time we are the bad friends we all complain about. All of us are guilty in one way or other. We've been a bad friend to somebody at one point or the other. So, if we avoid, cancel or run away from everyone who has offended us at one point or the other, what do we do with ourselves?"

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Fans and followers of the actress took to the comment section with remarks in agreement with her statement.

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Read some of the comments sighted below:

__iamwhizdom:

"Friends are the backbone of someone's happiness."

Beflawlessnigeria:

"You have spoken well."

Dolsha_andrew:

"correct ma."

Teezfabrics:

"Deep and fact."

Femireubenoj:

"Seriously you keep winning my heart sis."

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Meanwhile, Legit.ng earlier reported that Toyin Abraham added another feather to her cap as she got recognised at the Eko Star Film and TV awards.

The ceremony was put together by the Lagos state Ministry of Tourism, Arts & Culture, in partnership with EbonyLife Place and Nigerian International Film Summit (NIFS), in recognition of remarkable women in the industry.

Abraham dedicated the award to her husband and colleague, Kolawole Ajeyemi, her sister, godmother, and manager.

Source: Legit.ng

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Maymunah Ajetunmobi (Entertainment Deputy HOD) Maymunah Ajetunmobi is a journalist and the deputy HOD of the entertainment desk with over two years of work experience at Legit.ng. She graduated from the University of Ilorin in 2016 with a Bachelor's Degree in Zoology and has moved on to pursue courses and a degree in communication. Maymunah joined Legit.ng in 2020, and emerged Editor with Top Entertainment Article in 2021. She has written exclusive articles, unique pieces, and interviews. Email: ajetunmobi.maymunah@corp.legit.ng