Lady teaches married women how to win war against side chics
- A concerned Nigerian lady has penned a candid note to married women on social media
- The lady, Mma Eka, outlined the strategies women must take in other to win the war against side chics
- According to Nna, married women must learn to build themselves outside of the confines of marriage and bring immense value to the table
The past few weeks on social media has been riddled with several cases of angered housewives who have taken the bull by the horn and resorted to physical confrontation of women that pose a threat to their marriages.
However, while the method may have proven to keep side chics and cheating men on their toes, it has not exactly tackled the problem of infidelity in marriages/relationships.
It is in light of this that a Nigerian lady identified as Mma Eka penned a lengthy and candid note to married Nigerian women.
Eka started her post by strongly noting that contrary to what many married women may think, keeping a perfectly trim body is not the only way to keep a sane and healthy marriage.
She followed this with some thought-provoking questions aimed at helping women discover their true value and purpose outside of marriage.
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"Do you study or work hard to add value to yourself and family? Some of you don't even know your rights and privileges as a wife, that is why you let yourself get walked over by your men. You don't have any identity outside your husbands because you abandoned your dreams and drives at the altar of marriage," her post read in part.
She went on by noting that for women to win the war against other ladies that are sleeping with their husbands and posing threats to their marriages, they have to become what the other lady is not, adding that it goes beyond the matter of physical appearances.
Eka noted that women should be able to build themselves in such a way that their husbands would see them as a value-adding partner, with whom they can discuss critical and important life issues.
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"Be that uncommon woman which a man cannot easily replace with any other because your qualities are rare to come by. Can your husband count on your maturity and wisdom? Can he confidently discuss a disturbing business deal with you because he trust your wise judgement? Can you make a logical and meaningful input in controversial issues?" she wrote.
Concluding her post, a concerned Eka urged married women to put themselves first and seek inner fulfilment and happiness. She said they should learn how to carry themselves in such a way that even when their husbands cheat with several women, he would never find anyone with the same qualities that they possess.
See screenshots of her post below:
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Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously gathered the report of a woman who confronted a young lady believed to be her husband's side chic.
In the video that became viral online, she physically assaulted the side chic while confronting her for sleeping with her husband. The incidence which occurred at a supermarket gathered several reactions from people.
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